Solo Dominance, Submission, and Surrender

30oct20:0022:00Solo Dominance, Submission, and SurrenderLGBTQIA+ & FRIENDSEvent OverVirtual Event20:00 - 22:00 FacilitatorLee Harrington (he/him)Categorykink


(Sunday) 20:00 - 22:00





Event Details

Looking to connect with power exchange, dominance, submission, or authority transfer but do not have a partner to do it with or are long distance?

Learn tools for making it your own whether you choose to always be solo in this play or in relationships, or if you are building skills for being with others. Explore ways to get into, explore, and stop roleplaying. Are you drawn to power exchange, dominance, or submission, but are not in a relationship? Are you long-distance from a partner and want ways to connect with your identity without them around?

Are mastery, dominance, submission, or surrender part of your spiritual path regardless of other humans being involved? In this discussion, we will examine the concepts around Solo D/s, then explore psychological, energetic, and physical ways to dive on in. Whether you yourself identify on either “side” of these dynamics or are curious about adding auto-erotic D/s play and dynamics to your kink repertoire, join us for this collective exploration.

– Examine the concepts of solo dominance, submission, service, and surrender

– Find ways to figure out which appeals and apply to you

– Build systems for temporary play involving these topics

– Engage with approaches to these topics that you can include in your day-to-day life


Event Details

Date & Time:  October 30th, 2022, 8-10 pm CET (Berlin time)

Format: hands-on workshop


Language: English

Minimum Knowledge Level:

What to Bring: An open mind, curiosity, and a desire to explore the topic.

Solo or Partnered: all constellations welcome

Class recording: Yes. This class will be recorded (only the facilitator, not the participants) and is available for ticket holders for 14 days after the event


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Lee Harrington (he/him)

Lee Harrington (he/him) is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator, gender explorer, eclectic artist, and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality, psychology, faith, and desire, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams), “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator, academic, adult film performer, world class sexual adventurer, outspoken philosopher, polytheist priest/ess, kink/bondage expert, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at

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