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29
OCT

Negotiating Kinky Relationships

7:00 pm – 10:00 pm CET · LGBTQIA+ & Friends
VIRTUAL

Quick Info

When:
29. October 2026, 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm CET
Where:
online
Format:
workshop
Who can join:
LGBTQIA+ & Friends
Constellation:
solo, paired, groups - all constellations welcome (everyone needs a ticket)
Language:
English
What to know:
No prior knowledge needed
What to bring:
Paper, pen, questions
Recording:
Yes, the session is recorded and will be sent to all ticket holders after the class.
Questions:
Message us via info@karada-house.de

Tickets

Tickets

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Negotiating Kinky Relationships (support us) [Digital]
32,50
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27,50
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Negotiating Kinky Relationships (solidarity) [Digital]
22,50
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Turns out “we’ll figure it out as we go” is not actually a relationship structure and can backfire.

Whether you’re building a dynamic, navigating kink in a non-monogamous constellation, or trying to figure out how to be more conscious in an existing relationship, this workshop is for you. We’ll cover pre-scene negotiation, but also go beyond that into the messier, more interesting territory – how do you negotiate the relationship outside play dynamics, renegotiate when things shift, and hold ongoing consent and agreements without having to turn each playtime into a board meeting.

We’ll have conversations, do exercises, and reflect on how to go beyond assumptions. You will receive Ceci’s BDSM smorgasbord as a tool for your conversations.

What to expect

  • Scene negotiation & relationship negotiation
  • Tools for talking about desires, dynamics, and dealbreakers
  • Renegotiation and changing structures in kink relationships
  • Ongoing consent in long-term dynamics
  • Troubleshooting your sticking points together – bring questions and conundrums!

Who should join

  • You’re in or building a kink dynamic and want to be conscious about it
  • You’re non-monogamous and trying to figure out how kink relationships fit into the mix
  • You’ve had miscommunications and relationship ruptures because thigs have been left unsaid
  • You’re new to kink and want to start with a solid foundation

Facilitator

Ceci Ferox (they/them)

Ceci is a queer, non-binary, and fat sexologist. They are a huge sex nerd with a special interest in shibari and have been teaching bondage and BDSM for 10 years. At Karada House, Ceci facilitates workshops, does sex and couples therapy, and supports strategic and day-to-day admin work. They also regularly take on the role of official house awkward and can be found doing weird little dances in the...

Learn More

http://www.ceciferox.fi

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