
Quick Info
- When:
- 29. October 2026, 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm CET
- Where:
- online
- Format:
- workshop
- Who can join:
- LGBTQIA+ & Friends
- Constellation:
- solo, paired, groups - all constellations welcome (everyone needs a ticket)
- Language:
- English
- What to know:
- No prior knowledge needed
- What to bring:
- Paper, pen, questions
- Recording:
- Yes, the session is recorded and will be sent to all ticket holders after the class.
- Questions:
- Message us via info@karada-house.de
- Add to calendar:
- Google Calendar / iCal / .ics file
Tickets
If you cannot afford this event, please check the ticket option "solidarity" for reduced ticket prices. If that is still too much or they are out of stock, feel free to send us a message via info@karada-house.de.
Turns out “we’ll figure it out as we go” is not actually a relationship structure and can backfire.
Whether you’re building a dynamic, navigating kink in a non-monogamous constellation, or trying to figure out how to be more conscious in an existing relationship, this workshop is for you. We’ll cover pre-scene negotiation, but also go beyond that into the messier, more interesting territory – how do you negotiate the relationship outside play dynamics, renegotiate when things shift, and hold ongoing consent and agreements without having to turn each playtime into a board meeting.
We’ll have conversations, do exercises, and reflect on how to go beyond assumptions. You will receive Ceci’s BDSM smorgasbord as a tool for your conversations.
What to expect
- Scene negotiation & relationship negotiation
- Tools for talking about desires, dynamics, and dealbreakers
- Renegotiation and changing structures in kink relationships
- Ongoing consent in long-term dynamics
- Troubleshooting your sticking points together – bring questions and conundrums!
Who should join
- You’re in or building a kink dynamic and want to be conscious about it
- You’re non-monogamous and trying to figure out how kink relationships fit into the mix
- You’ve had miscommunications and relationship ruptures because thigs have been left unsaid
- You’re new to kink and want to start with a solid foundation
Facilitator
More Information
LGBTQIA+ describes the full spectrum of non-mainstream sexual orientation and/or gender identity, meaning: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer/fluid, queer, intersex, asexual, aromantic, agender.
Friends describe people of any and all kinds of gender and sexual identities who are aware and respectful of the necessity, needs, and boundaries of a queer space and its marginalized community.
When you consider yourself a friend you show acknowledgement to and are respectful of everyone's self-expression and do not assume, presume or project non-consensual ideas onto others. You actively request and use people's chosen pronouns. You remain mindful of the fact that Karada House is first and foremost a space for queer people that you are also invited to attend. You have a genuine concern for the well-being of LGBTQIA+ people and remain in awareness of heterosexual and gender-straight privileges.
Friends don't have to be perfect. None of us are. We request that we all proactively work and strive to be good friends and allies to marginalized people.
After your successful ticket purchase, you will be sent an email with the Zoom login data for this event. If you do not receive it, message us with your order number so we can send it again. Some email services "disappear" our messages so please check if you received our login data email.
If this session includes a recording you can obtain it by simply purchasing a ticket. You will automatically get access to the live class and the recording as they come in a package. The recording login data will be sent out 24–48h after the live event and will be available for (at least) 14 days after the live event. Please note these classes are places for experience, not for instruction. Nothing here is tested or graded — only perceived, felt, and shared. All offerings are invitations to reflect — no curriculum, no exam, no training. Recordings exist solely to support personal integration and are available only for a limited time.
Yes, because you are paying for the knowledge our facilitators distribute, not for the access to Zoom itself. We kindly ask you to respect that and pay accordingly.
Before purchasing a solidarity ticket, please check here if you are eligible for one.
If you cannot afford this event, please check the ticket option "solidarity" for reduced ticket prices. If that is still too much or they are out of stock, feel free to send us a message via info@karada-house.de.
- Virtual: The session will be held on ZOOM
- Live captions are available
- Live translation in multiple languages is available
- Transcripts of the session are available
- The session is moderated and tech support is available
- Communication in the session is via chat and/or direct communication via microphone

