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Trauma and kink are deeply embedded in each other.
All kinds of power dynamics we play with either reflect oppression and violence or turn them around to subvert what we have to live with. This is where transformation begins.
This workshop is about creating enough safety within our group so we can actually negotiate trauma-related scenarios and play.
To get there, we will discuss and practice nervous system regulation, what attachment wounds have to do with the way we relate, and how important it is to place our kinky endeavors within communities of care and our movements for change.
Most of us know about the trauma responses of flight, fight, and freeze. During our weekend together trauma response fawning/appeasement will have a special place in our explorations. Can service topping be part of a fawning response? Is getting out of submission that is about appeasement liberating – and what does submission look like after that shift?
Another focus will be on conflict and fuck ups. These are inevitable when we are brave and go to difficult places. Let’s take some time to explore and be playful around this topic!
Vulnerability, respect, and gentle ways of relating with each other instead of Berlin coolness and showing off!
Event Details
Date & Time: March 2-3th, 2024, 11 am-6 pm
Format: workshop
Audience: LGBTQIA+ & FRIENDS
Language: English / German translation
Minimum Knowledge Level: you have knowledge about your kinks and some knowledge about your specific triggers and trauma
What to Bring: Bring an object that soothes you or calms you down, like a blanket or cuddly toy or a stone
Solo or Partnered: All constellations welcome (Limited to 10 participants)
Price: 120 Euros per person
Safety Concept & Regulation
Please consult our safety concept and regulations for this event here.
Accessibility Note
The workshop is held in spoken English.. The space, KARA, is on the ground floor but has three steps to enter the house. A ramp for wheelchairs is available at all times. There is also a parking space available right in front of the door if needed. KARA has an accessible bathroom available. There are no thresholds in the entire house. The garden is only partially accessible at the moment. During the workshop, we will sit on the floor. Sitting in a chair can also be provided. Adaptations for physical needs will be shown and can also be provided upon request. If you participate in this workshop and need more assistance please message us at info@karada-house.de beforehand.
Who is this event for?
LGBTQIA+ describes the full spectrum of non-mainstream sexual orientation and/or gender identity, meaning: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer/fluid, queer, intersex, asexual, aromantic, agender.
Friends describes people of any and all kinds of gender and sexual identities who are aware and respectful of the necessity, needs, and boundaries of a queer safe(r) space and its marginalized community.
When you consider yourself a friend you show acknowledgement to and are respectful of everyone’s self-expression and do not assume, presume or project non-consensual ideas onto others. You actively request and use people’s chosen pronouns. You remain mindful of the fact that Karada House is first and foremost a space for queer people that you are also invited to attend. You have a genuine concern for the well-being of LGBTQIA+ people and remain in awareness of heterosexual and gender straight privileges.
Friends don’t have to be perfect. None of us are. We request that we all pro-actively work and strive to be good friends and allies to marginalized people.
What else to know
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