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Hurt My Feelings, Please – Emotion-based SM

8:00 pm – 10:30 pm CEST · LGBTQIA+ & Friends
VIRTUAL

Quick Info

When:
25. May 2026, 8:00 pm – 10:30 pm CEST
Where:
online
Format:
workshop
Who can join:
LGBTQIA+ & Friends
Constellation:
solo, paired, groups - all constellations welcome (everyone needs a ticket)
Language:
English
What to know:
know how to work with your triggers, boundaries, etc
What to bring:
pen & paper, questions, ideas
Recording:
Yes, the session is recorded and will be sent to all ticket holders after the class.
Questions:
Message us via info@karada-house.de

Tickets

Tickets

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Hurt My Feelings, Please – Emotion-based SM (regular) [Digital]
17,50
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Hurt My Feelings, Please – Emotion-based SM (support us) [Digital]
22,50
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Hurt My Feelings, Please – Emotion-based SM (solidarity) [Digital]
12,50
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In this workshop we want to explore consensually playing with pain without involving physical pain: from exploring shame, fear, panic, degradation, manipulation and more! We will be focusing on different scene ideas, ways to create and sustain different feelings, but also on care, risks and how to mitigate them.

What We Will Do

  • An intro to the political role of feelings and its cultural complexities. 
  • How to work on evoking different feelings: set and setting in roleplays.
  • Risk profile for emotional SM
  • Asking for what we want and working together on creating it.
  • Shame and guilt for tops and bottoms and how to deal with it
  • How to navigate the possibility of getting triggered
  • Negotiation, care and risks
  • Negotiation demo

 

Facilitator

Mel Feld (he/him)

I’m a transmasculine GNC boi from Buenos Aires, Argentina, I work as a sex and bdsm educator, I’m the co-funder of a collective (Kinky Vibe Argentina) that hosts queer and kinky events, owns a digital Sex Shop and independent press oriented to LGTBIQANB+ people. I’m also a sex worker (pro domme), performer and shibari enthusiast that has been bottoming rope for almost 10 years.

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https://kinkyvibe.ar/

Memi (he/him)

Memi is a bi transmasc switch based in Argentina that works as a teacher and researcher around history of sexuality/ies. His passion is understanding how desire and politics interact.

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