GenderQueer Bondage: Rope for People “Between” and “Beyond”

22nov20:0022:00GenderQueer Bondage: Rope for People “Between” and “Beyond”LGBTQIA+ & FRIENDSEvent OverVirtual Event20:00 - 22:00 FacilitatorLee Harrington (he/him)Ev EvnenCategoryshibari


(Tuesday) 20:00 - 22:00





Event Details

Rope bondage is not just for the normative bodies!

Whether you or your play partners are transgender, non-binary, gender adventurous, have other body/mind realities, or simply want to be listened to outside of assumptions around ropework, this class is for you. Ever had to struggle with how to put a crotch rope on a woman who has a little something extra? Wanted to tie up a transman who wanted chest bondage that didn’t make him look like a girl?

Perhaps you just want to explore some hot ways to tie up your lovers to make them feel androgynous and exposed? Then this class is for you. We’ll be playing with crotch ropes and strap-on harnesses, alternative forms of chest and torso bondage (to emphasize and de-emphasize curves), and exploring a few other ties that can help us or our partner(s) feel seen as whatever gender or otherness as we experience ourselves to be.

We will explore:

– Build chest harnesses that affirm the identities of our partners

– Learn crotch rope styles that work with the bodies we are actually with

– Practice body harnesses creatively in a group setting

– Learn tips to discuss our desires around rope bondage with our partners


Event Details

Date & Time:  November 22nd, 2022, 8-10 pm CET (Berlin time)

Format: hands-on workshop


Language: English

Minimum Knowledge Level: Intermediate rope techniques, but the application of techniques is usable for all experience levels of rope for those playing along at home

What to Bring: Bring two or more pieces of rope, 25-30 feet (6-8 meters) in length, and a cutting tool

Solo or Partnered: all constellations welcome

Class recording: Yes. This class will be recorded (only the facilitator, not the participants) and is available for ticket holders for 14 days after the event


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Lee Harrington (he/him)

Lee Harrington (he/him) is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator, gender explorer, eclectic artist, and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality, psychology, faith, and desire, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams), “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator, academic, adult film performer, world class sexual adventurer, outspoken philosopher, polytheist priest/ess, kink/bondage expert, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at

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Ev Evnen

Ev (they/them) is a white, Jewish, trans person, originally from Lincoln, NE, with a decade stop in Boston. Ev is an experienced facilitator on issues including racial justice, LGBTQ+ topics, and how we have difficult conversations across differences.

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