Fat Rope and Heavy Pleasure

16feb18:1520:15Fat Rope and Heavy PleasureCeci Ferox, Ms. Reemah, CegregiaVirtual Event18:15 - 20:15 FacilitatorCeci Ferox (they/them)Cegregia (she/her)Ms. Reemah (she/her)CategoryDay 2,Queerope 2023


(Thursday) 18:15 - 20:15 CET





Event Details

This roundtable conversation between Ceci Ferox, Cegregia, and Ms. Reemah explores what it means to be fat in the world of rope. How does fat and weight influence how we tie and get tied? What are the politics around fatness and rope? And what kind of juicy tricks and pleasurable hacks have we found through our own and other people’s fat bodies?

This discussion centers on the fat body not as an object but as the protagonist. If you are fat, we invite you to share your own joy and pleasure. If you are not fat, we invite you to listen in on this sharing and to give space.



Format: discussion

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Solo or Partnered: any constellation

Class recording: yes

This class will be recorded (only the facilitator, not the participants) and is available for ticket holders for 30 days after the event.



Ceci Ferox (they/them)

Ceci Ferox is a Berlin-based sex therapist, kink activist, and rope teacher originally from Finland. Safer spaces and empowerment through quality education are important for them.

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Cegregia (she/her)

Hi, I'm CJ! I'm a tall, fat, muppety human who's been doing this ropey thing since 2017. I tie, am tied, and self tie, with a particular specialization in dubious suspensions for the sake of science. The word "can't" makes me deeply suspicious. As such, I'm compelled to find the adaptations and modifications that make suspensions possible for all bodies. Curiosity and collaboration make my world go round, and I'll *absolutely* help you make your weirdest rope dreams into reality.

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Ms. Reemah (she/her)

Ms. Reemah is a queer woman of color from Atlanta. She has been a part of the kink community since 2017. Ms. Reemah is a member of the sisterhood Black FemDoms (BFD)-Atlanta. Ms. Reemah derives immense joy and connectedness through rope play. There is an intimate connection between a rigger and rope bottom that is profound and unlike no other. While also providing an outlet for creativity by manifesting the beauty and strength of the bottom in rope. POCs are disproportionately represented in the kink community. As a queer black Femme Domme, Ms. Reemah has taken strides to increase the visibility, education, participation, and awareness of POCs in the kink community.

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