If you cannot afford this event, please check the ticket option "solidarity" for reduced ticket prices. If that is still too much or they are out of stock, feel free to send us a message via info@karada-house.de.
Welcome to Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks, your monthly aftercare event to take a break from cisheteropatriarchy, capitalism, the burning world, or life in general. We’re here to rest so we can resist, to play as an antidote to pressure, and to let the people eat cake. Queer people, welcome!
We are opening our wonderful house for the evening so you can come by, relax, and calm down amongst other queer people. There will be hammocks and little areas for cuddling and enjoying touch. Get or give massages. Do some soft, slow kink. Or hang out in the kitchen with us and just chat. We will be baking a bunch of cakes and there will be coffee, tea, and snacks to nourish your bodies and souls.
Light and slow kink interactions are welcome. Anything that allows you to come back to yourself and into connection with others in a soft and nice way. This is not a play party or sex club, but a playful community event. The vibe is cozy, and we don’t do genital play.
There is a separate cuddle room that is completely free from any kind of play, horny vibes, and nudity. It’s for cuddles, naps, quiet conversation, maybe reading a book.
Yourself and maybe things you like to share with others.
Please bring a blanket or towel to put on the yoga mats we provide.
Soft and cozy (onesies, lounge wear, leggings, pajamas, flower dresses, hoodies…) or if you’re in the mood to dress up, you can flag queer like you’re going to pride (fabulous outfits, jeans shorts with pocket kerchiefs, leather daddies, muscle mommies, rainbow makeup…). Nudity is welcome in some areas.
1) Cuddles, cakes and kinks is a playful community event for LGBTQIA+ people. This is not a play party or sex club. We are here to connect and rest. You can cuddle, chat, read a book, eat cake, do some light and slow BDSM, exchange massages, or even make out. The dress code is soft and cozy or flagging queer.
2) Light and slow means that you are mindful of how loud you are, how much space you take, and try to be in harmony with the rest of the room. Think cozy, consensual and cute, not intense and overwhelming.
3) This is a sober event. Please do not bring any substances to the space or enter under the influence.
4) The play space is for light and slow kink play. If you want to watch, sit on one of the seats. You can be nude in the designated areas if you keep a towel under your butt. No sideline wanking, scat, piss, sharps, or uniforms/roleplay based on institutional power. Disinfect your spot after using, and bring textiles to wash if you got bodily fluids on them (like sweaty butt or drool).
5) The mezzanine in the play space is for massage. Wipe off hands and feet afterwards if you use oil, and bring socks to wear.
6) The cuddle space (back room or garden terrace) is for cuddles, naps, and light conversation. No nudity, play, or horny vibes. Ask before joining the cuddle puddle.
7) The kitchen area is for eating cake, drinking tea, and chatting. It’s free from play and nudity. Ask the space holders if you want a coffee. Ask us if you need sugar or gluten free options. We appreciate donations for the buffet. There’s a stim toy box.
8) The mezzanine in the kitchen is for retreating and resting, leave people alone if they are up there.
9) Smoking only in the smoking area in the garden, next to the gate.
10) Be soft and slow, respect others and give them space. Collaborate in creating a safe and gentle mood. You get gratitude and imaginary points for helping us clean the space afterwards.
LGBTQIA+ describes the full spectrum of non-mainstream sexual orientation and/or gender identity, meaning: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer/fluid, queer, intersex, asexual, aromantic, agender.
