Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks

24mar17:0021:00Cuddles, Cakes and KinksLGBTQIA+Event OverIn-House Event17:00 - 21:00 Categoryshibari

Health Guidelines for this Event

Event Area Sanitized





Event Details

We are opening our new and wonderful house and garden for the afternoon so you can come by, relax and calm down amongst other queer people. There will be hammocks and little areas for cuddling and enjoying touch. Get or gives massages. Touch grass (literally and metaphorically). Or hang out in the kitchen with us and just chat. We will be baking a bunch of cakes and there will be coffee, tea, snacks, etc. to nourish your bodies and souls.

Light and slow kink interactions are welcome. So is nudity. Anything that allows you to come back in a soft and nice way.

What does SLOW mean? It means calming things down, doing them slowly and intentionally, with consent and good boundaries in place. It means being in community with intention, not just intensity. It means playing in a space that is semi-private with people to watch and people watching you. It means enjoying the energy of others being in the same space and seeking flow with each other across the room.

We are open and happy about what you bring as long you do not dominate the entire room with the noise, space you need, or vibe. This is a shared experience so please read the room and give others space as well.

Due to hygiene and/or high levels of trigger potential, we do not allow:

– blood, pee, scat play

– knife play, needle play

– uniforms and/or role play that includes institutional power dynamics (i.e. school, hospital etc.)


What’s the space like?

a kitchen and hang-out area

2 mezzanines for private tying

one large room with suspension points, hashiras, bamboo and rings provided.

The quiet garden (you can be in the garden in the summer breeze to get a break from the action inside).


How it works

The door opens at 5:00 pm and stays open until 7:00 pm (sharp).

You will need to purchase a ticket upfront as space is limited. 

At 5:30 pm we will give an introduction to people who are new to the space and want to meet others.

You can then choose your space and mode (talk, cuddle, sleep, eat cake, light play) and enjoy yourselves.

What to bring

Yourself and maybe things you like to share with others.

Please bring a blanket or towel to put on the yoga mats we provide.


What else to know

This jam is aimed at LGBTQIA+ audiences.

This space is a sober space. Please do not bring any substances to the spaces or enter the space under the influence.

Nudity is welcome.

Bathrooms and showers are available.


Accessibility Note

The space, KARA, is on the ground floor but has three steps to enter the house. A ramp for wheelchairs is available at all times. There is also a parking space available right in front of the door if needed. KARA has an accessible bathroom available. There are no thresholds in the entire house. The garden is only partially accessible at the moment. During the workshop, we will sit on the floor. Sitting in a chair can also be provided. Adaptations for physical needs will be shown and can also be provided upon request. If you participate in this workshop and need more assistance please message us at beforehand. 


Safety Concept & Regulation

Please consult our safety concept and regulations for this event here.


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