Approaches to Oral Sex

09apr20:0022:00Approaches to Oral SexLGBTQIA+ & FRIENDSVirtual Event20:00 - 22:00 FacilitatorLee Harrington (he/him)Categorykink

Time

(Tuesday) 20:00 - 22:00

Location

Online

language

English

Event Details

People engage in oral sex for so many reasons… but how do we get our desires met and explore with partners? Whether you are new, or a seasoned fan looking for new ideas, this class works beyond the belief that one size fits all – let’s make this type of play the right fit for you!

Deemed illegal or immoral in some cultures while seen as commonplace or a cultural norm in others, oral to genital stimulation is a tool for erotic expression that has many techniques to explore. Whether you see it as “third base” or “the most intimate type of passion,” let us explore the double (or triple) standards based on gender and genital configuration (from diverse cisgender male and female to trans and intersex bodies), and the medical realities present in this sort of play. Each of us has favorite skills and approaches too, so we will share descriptions of skills with each other (no live demonstration or nudity during the discussion, though props will be shown), talk about diverse anatomy and interests, and dive into our passions (and turn-offs) concerning this sort of sexual activity.

 

Event Details

Date & Time:  April 9th, 2024, 8-10 pm CET (Berlin time)

Format: hands-on workshop

Audience:  LGBTQIA+ & FRIENDS

Language: English

Minimum Knowledge Level: Beginner, with new opportunities for ideas you may not have been exposed to before for intermediate to advanced explorers.

What to Bring: A sense of humor and a loving heart. Optional: a way to clean your hands, a towel to wipe off your hands, and a nitrile glove to cover your hands for when we practice on our own hands (or that of a partner if attending in a relationship)

Solo or Partnered: all constellations welcome, everybody needs a ticket

Class recording: Yes. This class will be recorded (only the facilitator, not the participants) and is available for ticket holders for 14 days after the event

 

What we will teach

-Discuss the wide array of why people engage in oral sex

-Look at the vast array of anatomy for varieties of genitals

-Examine safer sex technologies and personal sexual risk profiles

-Consider turn-offs, and trauma around, oral sex

-Develop systems for discussing what we want and how we discuss our bodies

-Learn skills for hands, mouths, and brains-on techniques

 

Accessibility Note

The workshop is held in spoken English. German can also be provided. The space, KARA, is on the ground floor but has three steps to enter the house. A ramp for wheelchairs is available at all times. There is also a parking space available right in front of the door if needed. KARA has an accessible bathroom available. There are no thresholds in the entire house. The garden is only partially accessible at the moment. During the workshop, we will sit on the floor. Sitting in a chair can also be provided. Adaptations for physical needs will be shown and can also be provided upon request. If you participate in this workshop and need more assistance please message us at info@karada-house.de beforehand.

 

Who is this event for?

LGBTQIA+ describes the full spectrum of non-mainstream sexual orientation and/or gender identity, meaning: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer/fluid,

Friends describe people of any and all kinds of gender and sexual identities who are aware and respectful of the necessity, needs, and boundaries of a queer safe(r) space and its marginalized community.

When you consider yourself a friend you show acknowledgment to and are respectful of everyone’s self-expression and do not assume presume or project non-consensual ideas onto others. You actively request and use people’s chosen pronouns. You remain mindful of the fact that Karada House is first and foremost a space for queer people that you are also invited to attend. You have a genuine concern for the well-being of LGBTQIA+ people and remain in awareness of heterosexual and gender-straight privileges.

Friends don’t have to be perfect. None of us are. We request that we all proactively work and strive to be good friends and allies to marginalized people.

 

What else to know

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Facilitator

Lee Harrington (he/him)

Lee Harrington (he/him) is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator, gender explorer, eclectic artist, and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality, psychology, faith, and desire, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams), “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator, academic, adult film performer, world class sexual adventurer, outspoken philosopher, polytheist priest/ess, kink/bondage expert, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at PassionAndSoul.com.

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