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Lunch Talk: How to Be Gross without Being Gross a.k.a. How to Be a Better Pervert, with Practical Tips

1:30 pm – 2:30 pm · LGBTQIA+ & Womên

IN-HOUSE

Quick Info

Where: tent
Format: lecture
Max. participants: as many as fit
Constellation: solo, paired, groups - all constellations welcome
Can I passively watch?: yes
Minimum knowledge: -
What to bring: one rope
Accessibility notes: We can adapt to accessibility needs.
Add to calendar: Google Calendar / iCal / .ics file

What does it mean to “fuck around” and what are we trying to “find out”? When I say: “I trust you,” how do I engage to accept a range of possible undesired or uncomfortable outcomes? How can we work as a team to build a sense of security, identify functional exit strategies, cultivate attentive aftercare support, and commit to engaged repair practices as we explore the shadow zones of our appetites and impulses?

Bondagious & Thumper will facilitate a group discussion where we dive into the messy business of exposing desire and experiencing vulnerability within a supportive container of security and trust.

Facilitator

Bondagious & Thumper (he/him & he/they)

Bondagious (he/him) snared Thumper (he/they) at a rope date in the fall of 2019, and they have been tying tangible and intangible bonds ever since. Based in Montreal, Quebec, Canada, the duo has studied principally Akechi Kanna-style rope bondage, from official and unofficial sources. They draw inspiration from Barkas and Addie’s approach to rope as a tool for communication and connection, strongl...

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