Mindful, Not Demure – Sensate Focus for Kink
4
JUL

Mindful, Not Demure – Sensate Focus for Kink

3:30 pm – 5:30 pm · LGBTQIA+, only
IN-HOUSE

Quick Info

Where
garden
Format
workshop
Constellation
solo, paired, groups - all constellations welcome
Can I passively watch?
yes
Minimum knowledge
You are able to notice and set boundaries even in settings where everything isn't pre-negotiated
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Sensate focus is a sex therapy technique intended to reduce anxiety through eliminating performance pressure. Classically the technique will slowly move from non-sexual touch to sensual love making. But that’s not very kinky, is it. Ceci will guide you in this exploration of how it feel to be more present in your body, dropping the act, and finding pleasure – not through genitals but through being a pervert.

We will start with simple non-kinky touch, gradually getting more kinky and finally bringing in toys. The goal is to stay with how it feels (for both top and bottom), forgetting about what we should do, and focusing on what we want to do (consensually of course).

Facilitator

Ceci Ferox (they/them)

Ceci is a queer, non-binary, and fat sexologist. They are a huge sex nerd with a special interest in shibari and have been teaching bondage and BDSM for 10 years. At Karada House, Ceci facilitates workshops, does sex and couples therapy, and supports strategic and day-to-day admin work. They also regularly take on the role of official house awkward and can be found doing weird little dances in the...

Learn More

http://www.ceciferox.fi