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Sadomasochist Super Weekend Starting on May Day

We are presenting our first Sadomasochist Super Weekend starting on May 1st for learning all things pain, from theory to practice – and maybe reclaim some agency and power along the way. Our aim is to play hard, explore intensity, and approach the taboo and stigma of enjoying giving and receiving pain.

This weekend is going to feel like a love letter to queer bodies, autonomy, and the radical act of actually feeling things on our own terms. Landing right alongside May Day, it’s hard not to feel the connection: International Workers’ Day has always been about collective power, resistance, and reclaiming agency. This space taps into that same energy, just through the body. We’re not just showing up to learn techniques, we’re showing up to get curious, to connect, and to take back sensation in a world that constantly tries to dull, control, or define us.

Friday will ease us in with pain theory, consent, and communication, then move into the rhythm of spanking, building trust, confidence, and intentional intensity. We start and end early, so you will still have time for whatever other acts of resistance or celebration you want to dedicate your May 1st to.

Pain Processing & Theory, at 11-13

Spanking, at 14-16

By Saturday, things will get a little sharper (in the best way). We’ll be exploring edges — genital and nipple torment, face slapping, biting, kicking, punching — but always grounded in communication and care. And within that, consensual pain starts to shift, becoming something more than just sensation. It can be catharsis, a way to release what’s been sitting heavy in the body; it can be empowerment, choosing intensity instead of having it imposed on you; it can be clarity, a moment where everything else drops away and you’re fully present. It’s not just about impact, it’s about collaboration; how we negotiate, how we listen, how we co-create power instead of taking it. There’s something quietly political in that: choosing what we do with our bodies, how we express intensity, how we hold each other through it.

Genital & Nipple Torment, at 12-14

Face Slapping, Biting & Scratching, at 15.30-17.30

Thuddy Impact – Kicking & Punching, at 18-20

Sunday opens into something more fluid and creative — caning and flogging, wax, painful rope bondage — different textures, different languages of sensation. It’s part skill-building, part art, part deep, weird, beautiful connection. Expect to leave feeling a little marked (inside or out), a little lighter, a little braver, and more connected to yourself, to others, and to the ongoing, collective work of carving out spaces where we get to feel, choose, and exist fully on our own terms.

Caning and flogging, at 12-14

Wax Play, at 15.30-17.30

Painful Rope, at 18-20

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